If he’s feeling bad, my partner flat out refuses to turn the a/c on in the house.
I don’t think what his deal is, but he says that having the on in the house when he’s sick makes him recognize even worse.
I don’t understand this way of thinking in the least. Whenever I’m sick, I love to recognize the nice cool a/c blowing down on me. Then I will snuggle up under a blanket with my heating pad & it makes me recognize cozy & love I want to take a nap & rest. My partner is the opposite, though. He drives me deranged whenever he’s sick because he always acts love it’s the end of the world if he just has a little sniffle or anything love that. It’s so discouraging to me. And it’s even worse if heaven forbid, he has a freezing during the summer time whenever the rest of us need to be using the a/c. He doesn’t entirely seem to care if the rest of us in the house want to use the If he’s feeling bad, he doesn’t want to turn the a/c on at all. It’s almost love he wants to make sure that if he’s feeling bad, then he wants the rest of us to recognize miserable too. I don’t guess that’s entirely what he actively thinks, but it definitely does seem to come across that way periodically. I keep telling him that if he’s sick, that doesn’t mean that the rest of us have to overheat & recognize sizzling & stuffy in the house but he doesn’t care.